Friday, July 19, 2013

Thirupathi - A Walk to Remember :)

This morning I woke up with a strong thunder sound around 5:45 types. I got up and opened the window; I had to hold it very tight as the wind was too heavy and I fixed the door with the balance knob and switched on the TV. I heard the subrabatham in Jaya tv. I have heard it many times before but today it felt like I was standing in heaven. Thanks to the amazing climate and thunder which woke me. This reminded of my walk to Thirupati last year during Diwali. Trust me, this is the best time to get a nice darshan as the crowd will be very less. I usually travel to Thirupati in car, get a super darshan and return with full satisfaction. That’s how it has been for many years.

However, last year was an exception perhaps, an unexpected exception. We as usual took a car and reached kizh thirupati. My brother came up with the idea of climbing 7 hills. I looked at him with a red face. ‘Do you even think it is possible? – we never took this kind of risk and no way we are climbing’. I somehow thought that those who climb the hills are equal to God and it’s completely insane to even think of walking 3550 steps. I made up my mind of not climbing whatsoever.

Thanks to the driver, he gave so much insight about climbing and it’s not all that difficult is what he told me. Everyone can walk and so can you. He gave the courage. His courage gave motivation to my parents and the next thing I see is my mom calling me to climb. With a gulp reaction, we smashed a coconut and started the walk. Honestly I was preparing for the worst and got few details for rescue in the middle.

I had zero courage inside yet managed to show a courageous face.

We reached this Raja gopuram in about 10 mins from the start point. It was pretty hot. I was tired by the heat and gasped for breath as the steps were little tall and small.

Raja Gopuram - The first empty tower from the start.
Okay I want to make this clear, there are 3550 steps. It does not mean you will climb just these steps; there are many corridors and roads in between the steps. So basically it’s much beyond 3550 steps. It took some time for me to realize this and surprisingly my parents were enthusiastic about climbing. This however gave me confidence.

To lighten the mood my brother kept cracking jokes and made me feel comfortable. We had our own pit stops accordingly to our strength and capacity.

After two hours of walk we reached a place where bio-metric tokens will be taken – and we reached this banner.

Banner detailing the outline of the path to be covered.
I was a first timer in walking and from a distance when I saw this I thought wow we finished climbing. I scolded myself for fussing so much. I gave a closer look at this banner and realized I have not even climbed 20% and it’s just the beginning of the walk :( I saw the blue line with a huge sigh of scariness.

I wiped my fear and headed towards the steps and corridors.  I must appreciate the devotees who climb the 7 hills very frequently. There were many people few were much older than my parents, climbed faster and brisker. I was nothing compared to such devotees. It showed the fire inside such bhaktas. Applaud their courage. It was a wakeup call for me until I saw a man climbing the steps with his knees. Seemed like God telling me that, ‘you think you are walking your best – see others’ I had no words seeing him. He was sweating terribly, all he chanted was Govinda Govinda. He had nothing to offer for God except his bhakti. I am sure nothing matches to such kind of bhakthis. I salute such people. This gave me the fullest motivation and started to climb with lots of hope and poise.

Without my knowledge I reached 2850 steps and felt happy about myself. So did my parents. We came across many weird animals and birds. Thanks to monkeys, they really frightened me so much (though they were less than sholinger). I always get tensed worrying whether these creatures will grab my dupatta, jump on my shoulder, pull my water bottle, scratch my skin and lots of other eerie tensions. If only they could understand when I talk and never come near me... Sigh!! I hear a lot of people say don’t get scared its ‘Lord Ánjaneyar’ – it will not harm you. Every time I hear this, I wanted to ask ''oh really then why don’t you all buy a monkey as pet at home instead of dogs and cats''. Argghhh... Tackling all these animals we preceded further.

2850th step.
I must mention the climate. When I started it was super hot and as I went towards higher altitude the place started to get chilled up. The sceneries were breath taking.

One of the beautiful scenery.
I was stunned to find that there was no trash all way through the corridor. It was too crisp and looked so neat. I appreciate all the workers who are behind this amazing job.

The neat corridors all way.
Though all the people who were climbing with us were tired, the walk gave some kind of peace. A positive vibe, an optimistic outlook, clearer mind set, a focused attitude-all at once is very hard to obtain. I don't know whether it is because of the smell of the fresh air or the slokas which kept running throughout the path or the dense natural beauty. But I knew one thing for sure - It is definitely heaven on earth without any doubt. A walk made it possible to rejuvenate.

We started walking at morning 9:45am and reached at 3:20pm at this final step of 3550. Yayyyyy :)))))) I was so elated and took this pic of me stamping my mark at the final step :) A sigh of satisfaction covered me.

Finally done :)
Then we proceeded towards the queue and I am thankful to God for giving us darshan in less than 2 hours.

The real realization for me was when I came down from Mel Thirupathi after all darshan and prasadam. The driver showed us the walk way while we were relaxing in car. I was starring at the path we walked. Unbelievable no way I crossed so many steps. The driver kept driving from mel thirupathi to Kizh thirupati for almost 20 – 30 minutes.

Blurry pic of the path crossed.
I could not click properly, but the length was amazing for me to digest the fact that we climbed. I saw the path and told, really? Did I climb? I could not do it again. My super dad said, no you did not walk, you did not climb, you had the urge to do it and Lord Srinivasa pulled you up and that’s how you did it.  Very true. Really blessed to have got that strength to climb.

Thanks to my great brother, hadn't he initiated we wouldn't have been a part of this amazing journey.

Now, I want to try the climbing more often than going in car and getting a comfortable darshan. With all the pain and sweat and tiredness, the feel of getting a pleasant darshan is no way compared to VIP darshans. However, according to me those who climb are the REAL VIPs. I am happy to have been in the REAL VIP clad.

Definitely a walk to remember!

Thursday, July 18, 2013

R.I.P Telegrams - You Will Live in Our Hearts Forever

Few weeks ago I was digging my cupboard to relish my childhood pictures and other letters my grandparents and cousins wrote for me. As I was flipping through the bundle of pages, a small rectangular paper fell. It read ‘Delivered a girl baby. Both are fine’ – it was a telegram sent by my maternal to paternal grandfather when I was born. I was so happy seeing it as I have not seen a telegram in my life. I know back then, there was a ‘telegram culture’ when our communications were sunken deep.  Many emotions were tied to that piece of paper which used to come across many paths. At that time postman would look like God of communication. A salute those postmen who did an amazing job with the invention of telegram.

I personally have not received a telegram nor have sent it. I honestly do not know how it functions. Yet, it was so nice to hear from my mom about the telegrams they used to send and receive like 40 years back.

I felt bad to know that this 163 old culture of the great communication has been officially stopped in India – guess effective July 14th 2013. I was not a part of this culture but, I definitely want it to be alive, as this is the biggest history that unfolds how our great grand parents lived with communications.

Email, mobiles, landlines, sms, whatsapp, viber, chats etc have unquestionably made our today’s communication faster and effective. Still, there are certain things which should never be killed just because we have grown huge in communications.

Already handwritten letters have been dying and now the oldest hero of communication has died. Now, the future generations will not know the term ‘Telegram’ unless they Google out. Sad

I am happy to have been born in the age where I have seen life without internet/communication advances and with everything at once.

If you find a nice telegram in your home, please do frame it, because that will be the only personal proof for the coming generations. ‘RIP Telegrams.’ I never missed you but I do now. 

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

25 My Best of 'The Godfather'

If I had ever seen a movie more than 100 times in my life – it’s nothing but the Godfather.  No movie has inspired or pulled me so close in the first shot.  If I start praising the movie it will be never ending. So, I decided to put up my favorite 25 quotes/dialogues/saying - however we call it from the movie.   Certain quotes below can be understood only when the movie is watched. For those who have not watched it, please watch it at least once before you die (That’s what IMDB says it ;)) and for those who have already worshiped the movie like me, enjoy with me. Note: All three parts will be mixed.

If I don’t begin with this first quote; it will be a crime. :) Gracias ;)

1. Don Corleone: I'm gonna make him an offer he won't refuse.

2. Michael Corleone: If anything in this life is certain, if history has taught us anything, it is that you can kill anyone.

3. Tom Hagen: I have a special practice. I handle one client.

4. Tom Hagen: Mr Corleone is a man who insists on hearing bad news at once.

5. Sollozzo: What are you worried about? If I wanted to kill you you'd be dead already.

6. Don Corleone: A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man.

7. Michael Corleone: Today I settled all Family business, so don't tell me you're innocent, Carlo.

8. Sollozzo: I don't like violence, Tom. I'm a businessman. Blood is a big expense.

9. Don Corleone: Never tell anybody outside the family what you're thinking again.

10. Michael Corleone: Never hate your enemies. It affects your judgment.

11. Don Corleone: Whoever comes to you with this Barzini meeting, he’s the traitor. Don’t forget that.

12. Don Corleone: Revenge is a dish that tastes best when it is cold.

13. Michael Corleone:  My father taught me many things ... keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.

14. Hyman Roth: Michael, we're bigger than U.S. Steel!

15. Michael Corleone: I don't want anything to happen to Fredo while my mother's alive.

16. Michael Corleone: Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in.

17. Michael Corleone: I would burn in Hell to keep you safe.

18. Michael Corleone: When they come, they'll come at what you love.

19. Michael Corleone: Don't overestimate the power of forgiveness.

20. Vincent Corleone: Your enemies always get strong on what you leave behind.

21. Michael Corleone: Your father, my brother, we were opposites. We would fight and argue. But I never doubted his love. He would do anything for me. But his temper, too much, clouded his reason. I don't want you to make that mistake.

22. Michael Corleone: I don't feel I have to wipe everybody out, Tom. Just my enemies.

23. Michael Corleone: Fredo, you're my older brother, and I love you. But don't ever take sides with anyone against the Family again. Ever.

24. Don Corleone : A Friend should always underestimate your virtues and an Enemy overestimate your faults

The Last one is my very favorite scene and quote. Ahh.. Just love the way the dialogue was delivered. Kudos to Al

25. Michael Corleone: My offer is this - Nothing!

Grazie per la lettura :)

Friday, July 5, 2013

Legend behind 'The Ashes'

My family keeps discussing about all cricketing actions. I don’t know from where the discussion begins, but when it starts it will begin from where it originated till Dhoni to everything and everyone. This incident happened when I was in school, one day my brother went ga ga ga about ashes. My mind paused. I know there is a tournament called Ashes, but why do one call it ‘The Ashes’?

I did not have the power of internet when I was in school, so I used to see in newspapers whether there is any mention about it. Bad luck! I could never find out. I got all frustrated and asked my dad, why the hell they call it ‘The Ashes’?

There he began, explaining me. After listening to it, I thought it is the coolest thing ever happened to cricket and media is amazingly powerful. Here is what it is all about.

We all know that Ashes is a test series played between England and Australia in either of their home grounds. In 1882 Australia defeated England at Oval – London, I guess in 7 runs. That was the first time Aussies have won in English soil. The next day, The Sporting Times – A British newspaper published a mock obituary written by Reginald Brooks stating that English cricket had died, and the body will be cremated and the ashes taken to Australia. Further the media nicknamed the next English tour to Australia as the quest to regain The Ashes. It is said that during that tour a small terracotta urn was gifted to England captain Ivo Bligh by a group of Melbourne women (Though Ivo Bligh’s wife, has a different story to it). The contents of the urn are believed to be the ashes of a bail. – And that’s how the name ‘The Ashes’ came into existence. Isn’t cool :)

There are many stories behind how the ash was put in the urn and how it was presented. However, this is really legendary to know.

I did not believe this story until my brother showed it to me in real at Lords - Marylebone Cricket Club Museum. It seems that the facsimile of the urn are given to the victorious teams but the actual urn has never been presented as a trophy since it is presented to MCC by Ivo’s wife after his death. However, irrespective of whoever wins the tournament, the original urn always stays at MCC museum forever :)

'Are you hurt, or are you injured?'

One of the Pretty Little Liars quote which took my attention.

Jake, the martial arts teacher (Aria's date) asks Aria a question as she is still not out of her little situation. 


His question was whether she is injured or hurt? and goes on explaining that he would ask his students the same If they’re injured, I’ll just send them home. But if they’re hurt, I’ll tell them to just shake it off and get back in the game.” 


A call that a sage advice :)